My friends; are they [actually] true friends !?

Who do you allude to as your companions? Is it the individual who invests the most energy with you? Or then again the individual who is dependably there in a bad position? Is this a genuine decent meaning of a companion or just an interpreted significance of what a genuine companion ought to be? 

We could look into the significance in a word reference, yet anybody could do that. What's more, that won't change the appropriate response you have inside your own contemplations. What do you genuinely feel a genuine companion is, the thing that do you trust yourself a genuine companion to be. 

Motivation behind why I bring this up on the grounds that, somebody I once accepted to be a decent companion of mine, when I extremely gave careful consideration as well, was not a decent companion to me. My meaning of a companion is somebody who has comparable perspectives and convictions near your own. Somebody you can identify with and who you accept sees how you feel. 

To additionally expound on this, a companion ought to be a give-and-take sort of relationship, and not exclusively taking or giving, but rather it must be equivalent on the two sides of the range. Without this parity somebody is being exploited, in which shockingly many slip-up a companionship to be and imagine that is the means by which it ought to be. 

Additionally a companion ought to be one to empower and bolster a companion's choice, in the event that they know and have confidence in their companion's decision. There will be times where companions will deviate, or, in other words, has the privilege to decide for themselves. In any case, to at present put stock in them, despite the fact that they don't specific consideration for the reason, is the thing that a fellowship is about. 

In my specific circumstance I had a companion, how about we name him Bob to ensure his name here. Whom was experiencing some intense occasions, his sweetheart at the season of 3 years was not treating him like poo, much to I's dismay he was contributing as well, however I felt awful for him and become a close acquaintence with him and bailed him out. I let him remain with us and my family when he at last chose to abandon her and defended him. We talked and became more acquainted with one another better, and turned out to be average companions, or so I thought. I before long discovered the amount of companion he was the point at which he came in to live with us. 

At first things appeared to be great, our assention was for him to get recovered and get his very own position. I know he expected to recover a few assets from his activity before getting a place so I knew it may be a couple of months or so before he could make some critical strides forward. A couple of months passed and it appeared as though nothing more had occurred, he was making himself at home, and very little advancement on attempting to advance. Begun making him pay lease to enable things to speed along, and cover his costs he has accumulated while in our family unit. 

What's more, this entire time, we were further from being in contact than when we were not in a similar family unit. Come to discover he has been investing his energy fabricating another relationship after he left the one he has been in. Needed the best for him, yet exhorted it may not be the opportune time to start beginning another relationship. 

So quick forward, and now Bob and his new sweetheart were living with us!!! I don't know how it came to fruition, yet it did. When you trust you are companions you are some of the time blinded to their controlled ways. Despite the fact that it was brief before they got their very own place together regardless it occurred. 

To convey you to the present, Bob and his new young lady, who I'll call Bertha, separated, and took the majority of his stuff. Despite the fact that I cautioned him about the relationship regardless, regardless I was there for him. Presently to back track a bit I got included with my very own business and brought him along as well, since I knew it could help him as it has helped us. To be more required with my business and invest some more energy with family, I felt the time had come to switch employments, I disclosed to Bob this and he said I was insane and that my business will fall flat me. 

Presently I know it appears as though I have floated a long way from course here on whom our genuine companions are, however this precedent clarifies more than any words I could compose, through close to home understanding. Right then and there I understood that he was not my companion, since he didn't bolster me, however more critically he didn't trust he could ever escape the 9 to 5 rodent race they the vast majority accept is the main choice. I didn't understand the amount of a companion he wasn't until the point that I myself started to develop by and by. 

I say this to state, our companions are the ones who convictions levels coordinate, and that they are not continually taking, but rather giving and sharing. One who has confidence in you for better, and has accomplished it their selves, and gives you exhortation to be fruitful as well. One who can raise you up, and see things for you before you can see it. One that can enable you to understand your maximum capacity and help you understand you can have all that you want. 

What's more, companion, in the event that you can identify with this story, and have experienced something comparable, than I need you to know you have a companion in me. In spite of the fact that I don't have any acquaintance with you, or may never meet you, I have faith in you. You merit it, thus improves. In the event that you are searching for an approach to do that for yourself than I'll gladly enable you to arrive. Or then again on the off chance that you are as of now on your way, continue onward. The main way you will come up short is on the off chance that you quit. 

Good fortunes to you, and the adventure that anticipates you. Expectation you are a gigantic help and a motivation to many. To your prosperity...

BY

Mostafa Hamed 

He/She Is Such a Amazing Person, Such a Wonderful Friend, But Is It Really So?

It is very sure that you know individuals, even among your companions, who are constantly pleasant to individuals; continually obliging; continually "being there" for other people, with a listening ear, perpetual time, and a whole lot sympathy. 

It is very sure that you gesture with your head, Right, Sure, I know such individuals; even a decent companion of mine is such a man; a superb person, I may include! 

He/she is so decent! So pleasing! Continuously consent to whatever I - or any other individual's - recommend. So trading off. For instance, at whatever point we intend to go see a motion picture together, he/she generally consents to whichever motion picture I recommend; he/she is dependably sssooo adaptable... 

A superb companion, let yourself know; a one of a kind individual. Who wouldn't have any desire to have such a companion? 

However, would he say he is/she extremely such a decent companion? Such an interesting individual? 

Have you at any point believed that perhaps, quite possibly, he/she isn't the earnest individual who attempted to inspire you (and others) that he/she is? Who isn't the "all adoring" one why should willing penance for the benefit of other people? 

NO, you may state to yourself, this can't be; he/she is to be sure sssooo adoring; sssooo minding; sssooo unselfish. 

Yet, is it really so? 

Might it be able to be that such a man is really pretentious, narcissistic, even presumptuous, contemplating him or herself, putting on a show to be there for other people with the goal that everyone will love, acknowledge and venerate them? 

Have you at any point believed that such a man regularly strolls around with a low confidence, which drives him/her to do whatever they can with the end goal to get consistent love and affirmations from others - you included? 

Have you at any point imagined that they sit on an endless barrel of unfulfilled should be adored, and cherished, and cherished? 

It is without a doubt hard to believe that way. Such individuals are astute at controlling every one of us into supposing they are sssooo adoring; sssooo thinking about others; sssooo unequivocal. 

Be that as it may, the reality of the situation is, regularly they are definitely not! This is just a veil! 

A cover that they have been wearing for so long, that they themselves are not any more mindful of the way that the manner in which they present themselves to others isn't their actual self. They themselves are absolutely ignorant of who they really are. They have turned out to be so disengaged from their "genuine self" that they don't know better. 

You may meander why they wear a veil. It may be because of their low confidence; their perpetual should be cherished; their childhood; them being neglected at home - the reasons may be many. Be that as it may, now, what you find before you is imposter individual camouflaged as a cherishing, mindful and all-giving one. 

Would it be a good idea for it to trouble you? Would it be a good idea for it to irritate you? No, as long as you realize that the one remaining before you isn't valid; not who he/she anticipates to the world. 

Is there an exercise here for you? Possibly. 

The first is, don't be amazed on the off chance that one day, out of nowhere, something will occur among you, something which will abandon you baffled, befuddled. This may occur since under strenuous circumstances even veils tumble off, uncovering the individual behind them. 

For instance, you may fall wiped out one day, and, amazingly, they won't neither call nor come visit you (asserting, later, when faced, that they have been "excessively occupied"). Or on the other hand you may ask them some help, something you have never asked them, and they will turn out with one and thousand reasons clarifying why they can't (which, reflecting back about what they have disclosed to you long prior about themselves you understand that have only misled you, so basic is that!). 

The second exercise for every one of us to learn would we say we is: have to investigate ourselves: would we say we are really mindful of our identity? Do we too wear covers, and provided that this is true, what are they? For what reason do we wear them? Also, most vital of all, do they make us cheerful? Do they empower us to create fulfilling, solid, long haul insinuate connections?

BY

Mostafa Hamed 

الهبد في مصلحة المواطن الغلبان !!

الهبد في  مصلحة المواطن الغلبان  !!

زمان الاستاذ #احمد_زكي قال
# كلنا_فاسدون 
بس دلوقتي زاد عليها اوبشن جديد بقيت
 #كلنا_ولاد_كلب_فاسدوووون

مش هنعمل حاجة .. ومش هنتحرك من مكاننا .. لأن ببساطة ماحدش همه ان بلده تتحرك .. وحتى ماحدش همه ان فريقه يكون صح ... كل اللى همه إن الفريق التاني يكون غلط وبس ....

- كل واحد قاعد طول اليوم على فيس بوك وتويتر ومواقع الأخبار بيدور على خبر .. أو نص خبر .. أو ربع خبر .. أو كلمة واحدة تثبت أن التاني (معرص) ..
كل واحد فينا بيصدق المصدر لو قال اللى على مزاجه .. ولو نفس المصدر قال حاجة مش على مزاجه يبقى مصدر كداب وأبن وسخة .. حتى لو الحاجتين جوة نفس الخبر
مش هنبقى حاجة .. لأننا عايزين نبقى ولا حاجة .. عشان نثبت أن التاني فاسد وابن وسخة وخلاص 😷

😞الراجل اللي بيبيع لحمة حمير وكبدة كلاب ؛ مش واخد باله ان الفراخ اللي مراته بتشتريها بتبقي واخده هرمونات مسرطنة☺😵
من بتاع الفراخ اللي بيروح عند الفكهاني بيشتري فاكهة وخضار معدلة وراثيا وفيه بلاوي 😦

الثلاثة دول بقي في صيدلي بيبيعلهم ادوية مغشوشة
الصيدلي دا نفسه في دكتور مركبله دعامة قلب غير صالحة للاستخدام الآدامي 😤

كل دول بقي بيشربوا مايه من الترعة😧
 والتاجر النصاب بيفهمهم انها معدنية و يحطها في زجاجات مقفولة

و في مدرس خصوصي بيجي لعيال كل الناس دي☝ البيت
ويشرحلهم مواد التعليم الفاشل  ويحلب جيوبهم
وياخد كل الفلوس اللي معاهم 😕😇

وطبعا كل دول بياكلوا من القمح المسرطن اللي بيستورده رجل الأعمال
اللي علي علاقة بوزير الصحة اللي كان مستورد صفقة دم ملوث😣

اللي بيجتمع كل أسبوع مع رئيس الوزراء اللي سهل خروج عدد كبير من القطع الأثرية وبيعها للخارج بمليارات الدولارات😥

☆ وطبعا في وسط الدائرة  دي في اتنين واقفين

أولهم :- الموظف الغلبان اللي طالع ميتين اللي جابوه ويشتغل زي الحمار و بمقابل ميكفيش سجايرة
فبيتحول الي كائن ( بيضوحباطي عفن )
بيروح الشغل يجيب فطار وسجاير وشاي وسكر  ويقعد طول اليوم  يأكل ويشرب شاي وسجاير ولا شغله ولا مشغله
لحد ما تيجي  اللحظة اللي مستنيها بفارغ  الصبر
وهي أنه يجيله واحد من كل اللي فوق دول ☝
فيصطاده ويفشخه  (لين يعض الأرض 😂😨) زي ما بيقول الاخوه السعوديين 😂 ؛ ويطلع عليه كل القرف والفقر والنكد اللي  عايشه في حياته لحد ما يخليه يخاف يقرب من مصلحة حكومية تاني

النوع الثاني :-  دا زي النوع الأول بس عنده اوبشن إضافي
وهو أنه بيروح الشغل كل يوم علشان يقلب اي حد يعدي علي مكتبه ؛ دا بقي ماشي بمبدأ  ( شخلل علشان تعدي 💵😂)
وطبعا لازم تشخلل جيبك وتدفعله علشان مصلحتك تمشي وتعدي.
وطبعا كل دول  غير ( مدام  اعتماد ومداد سميحة  )
اللي قاعدين في أي  مصلحة  حكومية
علشان يعطلوا اي مصلحة
وأخر النهار بياخدوا ساعة رضاعة! ! 👙

طبعا بعد كل دا يطلع مسؤول حكومي  ويقولك
( أن كل دا بيصب في مصلحة المواطن  😡 )
وطبعا هيطلع الإعلاميين المعرصين
يقولوا عاشت الحكومة
وللأسف  كل ولاد الكلب دول مش بيتكلموا غير عن #مصلحة_المواطن_الغلبان
والمواطن الغلبان عمال يتصب في مصلحته
ويصوت بأعلى صوته ويقول
 كفاية هبد في مصلحةالعبد !
علشان #المصلحة
 مبقاش فيها مكان تاني يتصب فيه ،،،،،😠

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